How do you know when you love or are loved.

1. You know because you decide. You don’t feel love. You do it! It’s an act, not a feeling. In marriage vows, it traditionally says, in sickness or in health.” That is an example of love being an act. This is why the movie The Notebook is such a great example of love. The main character didn’t leave and he didn’t give up. Someone who really loves you won’t just abandon you or leave you. 2. You know because you do the act of loving. For example, someone who really loves you will invest, exert the effort into making the relationship work. They won’t just worry about whether they are happy, they will act in ways to make the partner and family happy. (To be continued...)