How to exit an elementary school mid-year graciously?

I had a friend call me on the phone to ask me how she should take her child out of school, as they are moving to Colorado.  These are my suggestions:

1.  Do not say anything negative about the school to parents at the school, since you are now leaving,  it is not fair to others who are deciding to stay.  Stay gracious, friendly and welcoming.

2.  Tell the teacher and the principal first, before telling other parents or children.

3.  Give the school reasonable notice since schools rely on funding based on your child's attendance.  Two weeks is a preferable time, though you can also do an independent study if you do not have that much notice.  Set up the independent student as far ahead as possible and you will need to pick up work ahead of time.

4.  Send a farewell card to the teachers and administrator.

5.  Send a farewell e-mail to parents and/or your child's friends.  Be careful about telling one family or friend before another, as this can cause hard feelings.

6.  If time, set up a farewell playmate or picnic and invite your child's friends and their families.

7.  Bring a gift to teacher and other caring staff on the last day to show appreciation for what they have done for your child.

8.  Lastly, send a postcard from your new destination, school to share with the class.